Busy 
Jul 12, 2008
The best expression of love is time. When you give someone your time, you are giving him or her a portion of your life that you’ll never get back. It’s frustrating sometimes, because you are not in the position to demand for their time…. You spent the whole day thinking about that person. All you wanted was to receive even the slightest effort to let you know that he’s okay so you wont have to check on your phone incessantly. You find all means to get into his world and yet it seems you live in two different realities.
Maybe those who wait suffer the most in love. They waste their time for someone not being certain of the circumstances of their actions. Their love – unrecognized and lonely… alone they face the unknown of the path they choose to thread. Their love sees beyond time and sacrifice and it doesn’t mind. In reality, those who wait have the most burdens in love. They are silently broken, agonizing in waiting, content just watching from the sidelines…
They say that as long as hope exists, love can survive. Even if love is not returned right away as long as there is hope, in time you can win over the person you desire. Lucky for those who wait that is given hope… they have the assurance needed to hold on… but what about those who took the risk even without assurance? Can their love still survive? Can they bear the pain of not knowing? I think sometimes we do know the answer, but we rather not confront it. In the end, we have an excuse to continue on our miserable "wait" for someone to see our worth.
These persons can be compared to mountains --- steady, strong and always there. They have seen everything that passed by them and they have a wonderful view ahead of them. But the fate of the mountains is terrible. They are destined to look at the same scene forever. Time passes them by and they don’t mind.
For those who have the luxury to be waited upon, do you know that there is someone waiting for you? If yes, what do you intend to do? Would you ask for more time to sort things out? Are you trying to test the person waiting for you? Are you like those who wait, they see but don’t mind? Or you simply don’t see them at all?
One must understand that whatever be your situation now, it is your choice. If you choose to stay with the person you love, silently broken; if you are content to see his smile, while you cannot create one of your own; if you are satisfied just to watch him from the sidelines, while someone else is playing your supposed part in his life --- then deal with the pain. Fall into the pit of abyss destined for your unrecognized love. Torture yourself by giving someone your all… someone who cannot even take a glimpse of your efforts. After all, through pain, at least you could feel.
The truth is, if he could really see you, he would unselfishly set you free and not leave you hanging on something that doesn’t make sense. He would tell you face to face the things you needed to hear: “just give me more time” or “go search for other things that can make you happy”. The first gives you hope to continue waiting while the latter opens your mind to reality. This will only be raised if he does actually see you.
It’s hard to hear the truth. But it’s just the same when you choose to shut your ears and close your eyes --- pretend that everything is as it should be. Whatever be the result, you will come to know that you are not broken no matter how much it hurts. Then the time you have can be attributed to moving on rather than waiting in vain. If he’s not worth it, stop as early as possible. Because if he doesn’t see your worth now, what makes you think he’ll eventually open his eyes? I think its best to reserve your efforts for someone who would see you even if you were not doing anything.
Bear in mind that time is the best gift and sadly, it is often taken for granted. We only see the value of a person when it’s already too late.
[article borrowed from my friend and editor..^^]
Maybe those who wait suffer the most in love. They waste their time for someone not being certain of the circumstances of their actions. Their love – unrecognized and lonely… alone they face the unknown of the path they choose to thread. Their love sees beyond time and sacrifice and it doesn’t mind. In reality, those who wait have the most burdens in love. They are silently broken, agonizing in waiting, content just watching from the sidelines…
They say that as long as hope exists, love can survive. Even if love is not returned right away as long as there is hope, in time you can win over the person you desire. Lucky for those who wait that is given hope… they have the assurance needed to hold on… but what about those who took the risk even without assurance? Can their love still survive? Can they bear the pain of not knowing? I think sometimes we do know the answer, but we rather not confront it. In the end, we have an excuse to continue on our miserable "wait" for someone to see our worth.
These persons can be compared to mountains --- steady, strong and always there. They have seen everything that passed by them and they have a wonderful view ahead of them. But the fate of the mountains is terrible. They are destined to look at the same scene forever. Time passes them by and they don’t mind.
For those who have the luxury to be waited upon, do you know that there is someone waiting for you? If yes, what do you intend to do? Would you ask for more time to sort things out? Are you trying to test the person waiting for you? Are you like those who wait, they see but don’t mind? Or you simply don’t see them at all?
One must understand that whatever be your situation now, it is your choice. If you choose to stay with the person you love, silently broken; if you are content to see his smile, while you cannot create one of your own; if you are satisfied just to watch him from the sidelines, while someone else is playing your supposed part in his life --- then deal with the pain. Fall into the pit of abyss destined for your unrecognized love. Torture yourself by giving someone your all… someone who cannot even take a glimpse of your efforts. After all, through pain, at least you could feel.
The truth is, if he could really see you, he would unselfishly set you free and not leave you hanging on something that doesn’t make sense. He would tell you face to face the things you needed to hear: “just give me more time” or “go search for other things that can make you happy”. The first gives you hope to continue waiting while the latter opens your mind to reality. This will only be raised if he does actually see you.
It’s hard to hear the truth. But it’s just the same when you choose to shut your ears and close your eyes --- pretend that everything is as it should be. Whatever be the result, you will come to know that you are not broken no matter how much it hurts. Then the time you have can be attributed to moving on rather than waiting in vain. If he’s not worth it, stop as early as possible. Because if he doesn’t see your worth now, what makes you think he’ll eventually open his eyes? I think its best to reserve your efforts for someone who would see you even if you were not doing anything.
Bear in mind that time is the best gift and sadly, it is often taken for granted. We only see the value of a person when it’s already too late.
[article borrowed from my friend and editor..^^]
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