okay. this entry is well...
about our friendship

lysa (my bestfriend)

made it for me when we were in 2nd yr. highschool and i just read it like a month ago. lmao. she was too shy. she thought i woudnt like it. but i actually love it. she's so sweet^^ haha
so im gonna write my thoughts in red kk?^^
here:
NOVEMBER 17,2006 - my gelplen's birthday!
(for those who are thinking why 'gelplen' and why not just stick the 'girl friend'. its just that, we cannot bear to pronounce the 'girl friend' right, publicly)
*lmao. so true. we just don't like the tone of other girls saying 'girl friend!!'*
My 'gelplen' Star, has been my best friend for already a year. We may not be the kind of usual best friends that you see: has the same fashion for fashion (bratz! eck..) *lmao.* or anything that's like that. Were the kind of bestfriends that are actually. totally, different!
She's what you call "VAIN" *i love you lysa so i'm publicly saying "im okay with the vain thing. but im a good kind of vain XD haha."*..She loves dressing up while me I'd rather stick to my 8-years old old fashion statement. *haha* She loves the color pink while i like blue. She loves JoJo while i love Goo-goo dolls *i love them now too*. Huge difference we have right? that's why a lot of people wonder why the two of us became the 'best friends' in our group.
We became the best of friends when we were in first year highschool. We became seatmates. Well, not literally. We're one seat apart from each other. But that did not make us close. I was the new kid in our school then. She was the student who obviously could grab the LOYALTY AWARD when we graduate in highschool. *haha. true! i've been there since kinder garden* At first i really thought she was the usual VAIN kind of girl. (the one who dosen't care about what's happening to the world and only cares about her face..) *lmao. she dosen't know me yet that much. im like the super girl of the environment. lol* I was comletely wrong.
During our first year we had the same crush. Yep the same! and that's what brought us closer together. Unlike some of those girls who would curse you for having the same crush as hers. *our crush was a 'campus crush' 'hearthrob in school'* WE, instead shared ANYTHING that we know about our 'crush'. Yeah. ANYTHING, EVERYTHING!! We talked and shared a lot of things and it's just not about our 'CRUSHes', actually it was more on what we like and love. That's what made us even more closer. *hehe. i believed that saying 'make your enemies closer..haha. and now we hate our 'ex-crush'. lmao. but thanks to that 'ex-crush' i got my loving bestie.*
SEPTEMBER 12, 2005 - One of the most embarrasing moments in OUR LIFE happened. For those who know this, MUZIKAHAN '05! It was our school's version of BATTLE OF THE BANDS. Shocking.. We joined and sooner or later we figured-out we got ourselves into a BIG PROBLEM! no not BIG.. HUGE PROBLEM..no..GIGANTIC HUMONGOUS problem! So.. Blah-blah-blah Don't wanna narrate the whole EVENT specifically and literally.
*we got into a really big mess :O*
With that event, we got even closer and then SOON we bacame bestfriends!
-----We became peanut butter *that's me* and jelly. *that's her* And once we went to school. We had the same bag. EXACT same bag! haha.. having her as my gelplen is like
having a TWIN..

For that ONE YEAR having her as my GELPLEN. I learned a lot of lessons and opened my mind to something I never thought I would love. *aww.. X)*
She was the kind of.. my teacher when it comes to dressing-up and she was the one who helped me boost my self-confidence a bit higher! I used to same old clothes i had since 8. But now, I'm exploring new things. With her I learned how to love myself and yet how to control myself from being a narcisisst. Yah, I changed 'cuz she taught me HOW. But all those fashion yadda stuffs that isnt important.
*aww.. i still love reading this. im sooo touched*
She taught me how to ACCEPT differences. I used to stick with those kind of people that's like me. the "NERDS". I used to have this belief "if you are a NERD. you cant talk to vains. and if your VAIN you cant interact with the other groupies.... if not.. your reputation is destroyed" *lmao. i told her that i dont judge people* but when i learned how to accept people and facts. All of these changed. I learned that it's true, that all people have different personalities and let's say kinds and yet it's up to YOU how to accept the FACT. I used to hate vain girls *haha you're too late gelplen! you alredy love me :D* 'cos we're different. But now, i learned that being VAIN isn't bad at all. It's up to YOU on hoe you would accept it and deal with it.
At first people wondered how could we work-out our friendship.
When we are totally OPPOSITE! We worked out our friendship with ACCEPTING and RESPECTING our differences and trying to explore things with it.
So, my hands are already tired and kind sore already. (thanks to the non-stop jamming sessions and exams lately!) so.. this has to end!
*hahaha*
soo.. what do you think?.. that's all of it. ain't she sweet? XD if i was a boy i'll marry her. lol. jk jk im not homo. hahaha
leave a comment kk? mwahhhhhh.
maristar
Nov 30, 2008 6:47 pm
yeah. haha. i comment on my own blog. haha.^^